The Myth of Independence: Unveiling the Hidden Dangers in Child Welfare

The tragic death of Geanna Bradley has left an indelible mark on my heart. It was unexpected, and as I poured over the details of her life cut short by those who were both entrusted and compensated to protect her, I found myself overwhelmed with grief for her suffering.
This case forces us to confront the harsh realities of a system that, at times, seems to commodify the foster care and adoption processes. We must ask ourselves: To what extent did these systemic structures contribute to Geanna’s demise?

Amidst the public outcry, with laypeople condemning the adoptive parents and social justice advocates pointing fingers at systemic failures—including child welfare services and law enforcement—lies a deeper societal issue. The myth of independence fosters an emotional detachment from reality by promoting disconnection from one another and our environment, emphasizing economic and political gains at the expense of community and cultural values, thereby enabling tragedies like Geanna’s to occur.

The financial support provided to Geanna’s family, although seemingly substantial, does little to address the underlying issues. This case prompts us to question the motivations behind expanding one’s family in such a manner. Is it a lack of education, a cultural expectation, or something else? Whatever the reason, attempting to navigate a value system centered on independence within a collectivist framework is fraught with challenges.

Hawai’i’s origins as a collectivist society, predating human habitation and thriving with flora and fauna, serve as a poignant reminder of our current disconnection from a system that inherently supports communal well-being.

Geanna’s story, heartbreaking as it is, underscores our collective suffering—a reflection of our estrangement from the world and each other. This disconnection from our “one nature family” perpetuates the cycle of harm we inflict upon one another, manifestations of a deeper, unacknowledged rift.

In her memory, I am compelled to ask, “How can we do better?” This question is not just rhetorical but a call to action for systemic change across various levels:

• Systems Theory Perspective: By understanding the interconnectedness of societal systems—family, economic, political, and environmental—we can identify where interventions are needed to prevent future tragedies. Systems theory teaches us that no part of society operates in isolation; the well-being of individuals is deeply intertwined with the functioning of larger systems.
• Universities’ Role: Higher education institutions have a crucial role in fostering research and education that challenge the status quo. By promoting interdisciplinary studies that bridge the gap between social work, environmental science, psychology, and policy, universities can equip future leaders with the tools to address systemic issues holistically. Additionally, universities can partner with community organizations to conduct research that informs evidence-based interventions and policy reforms.
• Governmental Action: Governments must prioritize the welfare of vulnerable populations by enforcing stringent oversight of foster care and adoption processes, ensuring that children’s well-being is the paramount concern. Policies should be reevaluated to emphasize the importance of quality care over financial incentives. Moreover, governments can lead by example in valuing community and collective well-being through social policies that encourage community support networks, education on parenting and child development, and accessible mental health services for all.

What Can Individuals Do?
Breaking down the myth of independence and fostering a culture of collective responsibility requires action not just from institutions but from every one of us. Here’s how individuals can make a difference:

• Educate Yourself and Others: Learn about the systemic issues in child welfare and the dangers of prioritizing independence over collective well-being. Share this knowledge within your community to raise awareness.
• Support Community-Based Initiatives: Engage with and support local organizations and initiatives that are working towards systemic change in child welfare. Volunteering your time or providing financial support can make a significant difference.
• Advocate for Policy Change: Use your voice to advocate for changes in policies that perpetuate the myth of independence and neglect the importance of community support in child welfare. This can involve writing to your local representatives, participating in advocacy groups, or using social media to raise awareness.
• Practice and Promote Interdependence: Actively participate in your community’s support networks. Offer help to those in need and don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need it. By fostering a culture of interdependence, we can create a safer, more supportive environment for all children.
• Educate on Parenting and Child Development: Promote education on parenting and child development within your community. Understanding the needs of children and the importance of a supportive environment can help in preventing neglect and abuse.
• Challenge Cultural Norms: Engage in conversations that challenge the prevailing cultural norms around independence. Highlight the value of community, collaboration, and mutual support in raising healthy, well-adjusted children.
  By taking these steps, individuals can contribute to a shift in societal values from independence to interdependence, creating a stronger, more resilient community that prioritizes the welfare of its most vulnerable members.

In honor of Geanna and countless others who have suffered due to systemic failures, it is incumbent upon us to strive for a society that values every individual’s well-being, rooted in a profound connection to our collective humanity and the natural world. Let Geanna’s story be a catalyst for profound, systemic change that ensures no child is left vulnerable to the failings of the systems meant to protect them.